A few photos from Centralia Pa

I’m sure I will eventually put these on the main site, but now you have a first look!!




Update 10/20

Life is crazy with the move to Austin. I am extremely excited, but feeling very bittersweet about leaving Philadelphia. Packing, politics, parties, oh My! I haven’t moved in 8 years…now I remember why!
Had a great road trip to Centralia PA,
Where I clad Myself in new latex and went off-roading in search of smoking ground! Took some great shots which will hit My website soon.

Thursday I leave for My last trip to DC! It will be a good chance for Me to channel some of My anxiety and adrenaline into tormenting and frustrating lucky slaves!
Moving week is the craziest of all! Three performances, Halloween farewell party, then leaving Philly Nov. 1st for three days of road tripping to My new home. I will be riding the Triumph down part of the journey…can’t wait to zoom through the Appalachians!

I will be taking it easy for a while….taking time to clear My head and relax (as much as I possibly can)…
I hope to be setting up My dungeon in Austin during Nov., and taking some quick trips to neighboring towns.

Niteflirt is up and running again, and I will be touching base with all of you soon enough!

Kisses and Kicks (to you know where)

Get your motor running…..


Get over My knee boy!

I have always had a maternal streak, without the desire to ever have children of My own.
There is something about being the sexy sadistic mommy that really gets Me going…it is, by far, the RP I am turned on by the most. Never really read into why…. but it’s always happened that way.

When in Vegas, I dished out some good old fashioned discipline to a boy in dire need of it.
As he regressed from his stressed out adult reality, My boy found himself a teenager again, misbehaving and making the mistake of NOT keeping his mother pleased. He had been caught indulging in some very adult-oriented reading material, as his pubescent body changes were bringing on all sorts of new curiosities.

Mommy Goddess had to have a long chat with him about the birds and the bees, and take strict measures to assure he not get his sexual education from some group of hooligans, and the dirty magazines they grifted from their fathers’.

The feeling of having a grown man thrown over My knee and literally dangling there never loses it’s charm.
I love positioning in front of a mirror so he can see, that it’s no matter he’s all grown up, over THIS lap, he’s off the floor and naturally forced to face the naughty inner child.

The ritual of nurturing/humiliating a grown man in this way, I find, is very cathartic.
A slow methodically OTK, rising in intensity, forcing squirming and whining and begging always makes Mammy Goddess a happy Woman!!

Do you ever dabble in elements of age play?
It’s is often labeled as ‘taboo’ play, but I don’t really see it that way. Many who ends up in the BDSM life
usually have an inspirational link from childhood going with it…weather it be games of manhunt, a overbearing babysitter or sister, a teacher, first girlfriend or school bully…

What was yours? Do you ever reenact your earliest moments of kink? ( Before you knew it was kinky?)

Guess who’s blonde??

Yep. (Ok, maybe a little pink here, but new pics coming in two weeks!)

Interviewed by Irene Boss


Please tell us a little about Your background?

– I come from a German/Irish family, and was raised Catholic, spending much of My formidable years in Catholic School
(explains a lot!). I was always a rambunctious child, and a bit of a troublemaker (who would have guessed?) As a teen, I was pulled to punk rock culture, which turned Me on to many subtle elements of BDSM. Much to My father’s dismay, My teenage heroes were Women like Wendy O. Williams and Joan Jett… I always wanted to challenge and question authority. My parents were both victims of white collar lay off’s during the 80’s and I knew then that the rat race was NOT for Me. I think those years internally programmed Me only to see the future as something I would create & define for Myself, no matter what was ‘expected’ of Me.

Where are You originally from?

– I have been in the Philadelphia area most of My life. I am excited to say that as of Nov. 1st 2009, I will be a resident of Austin Texas! No matter where I rest My head, however, I definitely have the gypsy spirit. I have always loved traveling, experiencing new things and people. For the past 5 years, I have been constantly on the move across the U.S., indulging both My kinky and vanilla pursuits of pleasure & leisure.

How old were You when You became interested in BDSM?

– There was no exact time or age. I always had dominant traits. Most of My childhood games were ones of some sort of power structure. I had a playhouse in the backyard that became a den of naughty childhood exploration, including doctor, manhunt, and cowboys and Indians….I always ended up being the one in charge of such games…and My poor younger brother….between being locked in closets and forced to dress in My mother clothing for fashion shows, it’s amazing he’s not a raging slave!!

How Were You introduced to BDSM?

– I began playing with BDSM in high school. My first boyfriend was older and kinky, and at that point, I was very nervous about sex. I played bondage, tease, and torment games with him quite a bit to avoid the big deed. Control and sexuality was a connection in Me early on. Combined with discovering authors like Henry Miller, Pauline Reage, Marquis DeSade, and George Bataille, I was on the path to perversity before I even lost My virginity!

What is Your favorite type of scene?

– Its so hard to define ‘favorite’. My favorite scenes really depend on the sub I am with. I love mixing it up, so the more versatile one is, the better. I do have a weakness for the psycho-sexual side of things, and love humiliation games, extreme bondage, role-plays, and forced womanhood.

Do You play with other Ladies?

– I welcome the chance to team up with like minded Ladies. I feel lucky to have known the Dommes I do play with…Mistress Renee, D’arcy & Astrid of Philadelphia, Maya Sinstress of Chicago, and Mistress Wynter of NYC are some of the Ladies I hold closest to My heart!

Are there any other Mistresses Who You admire?

– I feel lucky to have entered the Pro Scene when I did. I looked up to Women like Ilsa Strix, Sabrina Belladonna, Mistress Mir, Irene Boss and Midori, especially after meeting some of them via workshops and parties. I have also admired Judy Guerin for a long time, and her work with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.

Is there anything You would like to tell our readers about projects You are involved with?

– A consummate Gemini, I have My hands in many projects. I have been an Emcee for both a Burlesque and Sideshow troupe for years…I love the art of Vaudeville. Performing in the fetish arena is also a pleasure, and I have been part of events such as NYC’s SMack!, & Gomorrah, as well as Philly’s Diabloique & Libertine Ball. I also dabble in sculpture ( from small to large) and am currently learning the art of welding!!

Please tell everyone how You can be contacted online?

The best way to contact Me is through My website: http://www.athenalourdes.com

Made into art

A good friend of Mine included Me in his collection of graphic portraits. LOVE IT!


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